Have you met your … Feminine Self?

This piece struck a cord with my-Self, perhaps it will strike one with you also. Is there a place for the Feminine part of our Psyche to be expressed in the Post Industrial, Post Tech Modern World? The ‘Feminine’ and the ‘Masculine’, do not refer, in this context to gender alone. Although during the first…

Misogyny goes by many names and some of them approach …

with a smile and a back handed put down disguised as a compliment. misogyny mɪˈsɒdʒ(ə) noun dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women. Misogyny can be manifested in numerous ways, including social exclusion, sex discrimination, hostility, androcentrism, patriarchy, male privilege, belittling of women, violence against women, and sexual objectification. By this definition, I…

Mother! Mother! Where are you?

It’s Mother’s Day on Sunday. And yes it happens every year. We are all reminded of everything connected with being a Mother. We celebrate the efforts and the sacrifices of that one person on Earth – who loves us, no matter what we have done or who abandoned, betrayed, victimized and tormented us – our…

Know any “Drama Queens” ..?

They all come from The Drama Triangle! We all know someone who thrives on ‘Drama’ the way an addict craves their drug of choice. They crave the rush of adrenaline that goes along with chaos so they unconsciously and sometimes also consciously create – drama. There is a lot of rushing around when they are…

Sons of Fatherless Sons ~ The Legacy

So I have delayed writing this, due to the uncertainty as to whether I possess the necessary intellectual dexterity. In other words – because it is hard to write. But now that I come to it – I am finding perhaps it not so hard. What’s begun is half done. It is always ‘the before’…

Big Girl! You are Beaut-iful!

Dita Von Teese, a Feminist? Who’da thunk? The pursuit of Authenticity absolutely requires creativity for without creativity – how can you reveal yourself to yourself sufficiently that your wings can dry and you can fly? A creative curious mind is a beautiful thing and requires openness to emotion, to experience, to ideas and possibilities. In…

Singers ~ Sing! Musicians ~ Play!

So friends, who listens to “The Blues”? And does it help move “the blues” on from you? You know blues when you hear it, it starts out as gut wrenching depression, loss, raw grief – then somehow the singer – through their experience, voice and authenticity – transforms this muck of human experience into the…

The allure of Tainted Love … Entropy!

‘Made in Chelsea’ might be all about falling in love, but love without Chivalry has a dark side, a destructive kind of oblivion that under the right conditions is intoxicating. Some of us find this very compelling. The Spencer-Louise bond could under those conditions become very dangerous. Love can turn, when driven by sexual jealousy…